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The 50 Best Parenting Books Of All Time
Why these top parenting books and not others? The best parenting books below are the top picks from my master database, ranked by a combination of Goodreads rating, the number of Goodreads reviews and first publication date. The goal is to balance what’s most loved, what’s most popular and what’s proven timelessly relevant advice.
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- How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk (1996), Adele Faber
286 pages. Rated 4.3 over 21,500 reviews on Goodreads. - For the Children’s Sake (1984), Susan Schaeffer Macaulay
165 pages. Rated 4.4 over 3,600 reviews on Goodreads. - The Five Love Languages of Children (1995), Gary Chapman
224 pages. Rated 4.2 over 18,000 reviews on Goodreads. - Siblings Without Rivalry (1987), Adele Faber
How to Help Your Children Live Together So You Can Live Too
288 pages. Rated 4.2 over 8,600 reviews on Goodreads. - The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families (1996), Stephen R. Covey
390 pages. Rated 4.2 over 8,900 reviews on Goodreads. - Between Parent and Child (1965), Haim G. Ginott
The Bestselling Classic That Revolutionized Parent-Child Communication
256 pages. Rated 4.3 over 1,800 reviews on Goodreads. - Raising Your Spirited Child (1991), Mary Sheedy Kurcinka
A Guide for Parents Whose Child is More Intense, Sensitive, Perceptive, Persistent, and Energetic
496 pages. Rated 4.2 over 6,200 reviews on Goodreads. - The Whole-Brain Child (2011), Daniel J. Siegel
12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind, Survive Everyday Parenting Struggles, and Help Your Family Thrive
192 pages. Rated 4.2 over 18,000 reviews on Goodreads. - Boundaries with Kids (1998), Henry Cloud
When to Say Yes, When to Say No to Help Your Children Gain Control of Their Lives
223 pages. Rated 4.3 over 2,700 reviews on Goodreads. - Parenting With Love and Logic (1990), Foster W. Cline
271 pages. Rated 4.1 over 11,600 reviews on Goodreads. - Positive Discipline (1981), Jane Nelsen
349 pages. Rated 4.2 over 2,600 reviews on Goodreads. - Simplicity Parenting (2009), Kim John Payne
Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids
256 pages. Rated 4.2 over 8,800 reviews on Goodreads. - The Conscious Parent (2010), Shefali Tsabary
Transforming Ourselves, Empowering Our Children
300 pages. Rated 4.3 over 3,600 reviews on Goodreads. - Delusions of Gender (2005), Cordelia Fine
How Our Minds, Society, and Neurosexism Create Difference
338 pages. Rated 4.1 over 8,100 reviews on Goodreads. - Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids (2012), Laura Markham
How to Stop Yelling and Start Connecting
276 pages. Rated 4.3 over 5,800 reviews on Goodreads. - The Blessing of a Skinned Knee (2001), Wendy Mogel
Using Jewish Teachings to Raise Self-Reliant Children
304 pages. Rated 4.2 over 3,700 reviews on Goodreads. - Parent Effectiveness Training (1970), Thomas Gordon
The Proven Program for Raising Responsible Children
384 pages. Rated 4.2 over 1,500 reviews on Goodreads. - Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child (1997), John M. Gottman
240 pages. Rated 4.2 over 3,600 reviews on Goodreads. - The Gifts of Imperfect Parenting (2013), Brené Brown
Raising Children with Courage, Compassion, and Connection
Rated 4.6 over 3,200 reviews on Goodreads. - Untangled (2016), Lisa Damour
Guiding Teenage Girls Through the Seven Transitions into Adulthood
352 pages. Rated 4.5 over 6,200 reviews on Goodreads. - No-Drama Discipline (2014), Daniel J. Siegel
The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind
290 pages. Rated 4.2 over 7,900 reviews on Goodreads. - The Explosive Child (1998), Ross W. Greene
298 pages. Rated 4.1 over 6,500 reviews on Goodreads. - Nurture Shock (2008), Po Bronson
New Thinking About Children
352 pages. Rated 4.0 over 23,500 reviews on Goodreads. - Playful Parenting (2001), Lawrence J. Cohen
320 pages. Rated 4.1 over 3,600 reviews on Goodreads. - How to Really Love Your Child (1977), D. Ross Campbell
144 pages. Rated 4.2 over 900 reviews on Goodreads. - Unconditional Parenting (2005), Alfie Kohn
Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason
272 pages. Rated 4.1 over 5,800 reviews on Goodreads. - Becoming Attached (1994), Robert Karen
First Relationships and How They Shape Our Capacity to Love
512 pages. Rated 4.2 over 1,200 reviews on Goodreads. - Making Children Mind without Losing Yours (1983), Kevin Leman
270 pages. Rated 4.1 over 1,900 reviews on Goodreads. - 1-2-3 Magic (1995), Thomas W. Phelan
Effective Discipline for Children 2-12
320 pages. Rated 3.9 over 7,300 reviews on Goodreads. - Unequal Childhoods (2003), Annette Lareau
Class, Race, and Family Life
343 pages. Rated 4.2 over 2,600 reviews on Goodreads. - Parenting From the Inside Out (2003), Daniel J. Siegel
272 pages. Rated 4.1 over 3,100 reviews on Goodreads. - The Smartest Kids in the World (2013), Amanda Ripley
And How They Got That Way
306 pages. Rated 4.1 over 12,200 reviews on Goodreads. - The Second Shift (1989), Arlie Russell Hochschild
322 pages. Rated 4.1 over 1,700 reviews on Goodreads. - Bringing Up Boys (2001), James C. Dobson
288 pages. Rated 3.9 over 6,500 reviews on Goodreads. - Elevating Child Care (2014), Janet Lansbury
A Guide to Respectful Parenting
150 pages. Rated 4.3 over 1,900 reviews on Goodreads. - The Collapse of Parenting (2015), Leonard Sax
How We Hurt Our Kids When We Treat Them Like Grown-Ups
304 pages. Rated 4.3 over 2,700 reviews on Goodreads. - How to Raise an Adult (2015), Julie Lythcott-Haims
Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success
368 pages. Rated 4.1 over 6,900 reviews on Goodreads. - How Children Succeed (2012), Paul Tough
Grit, Curiosity, and the Hidden Power of Character
256 pages. Rated 3.9 over 20,500 reviews on Goodreads. - The Tech-Wise Family (2017), Andy Crouch
Everyday Steps for Putting Technology in Its Proper Place
224 pages. Rated 4.3 over 3,400 reviews on Goodreads. - It’s OK Not to Share (2012), Heather Shumaker
And Other Renegade Rules for Raising Competent and Compassionate Kids
400 pages. Rated 4.3 over 900 reviews on Goodreads. - The Self-Driven Child (2018), William Stixrud
The Science and Sense of Giving Your Kids More Control Over Their Lives
384 pages. Rated 4.4 over 2,000 reviews on Goodreads. - The Gift of Failure (2014), Jessica Lahey
How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed
243 pages. Rated 4.1 over 4,000 reviews on Goodreads. - Free-Range Kids (2009), Lenore Skenazy
Giving Our Children the Freedom We Had Without Going Nuts with Worry
195 pages. Rated 3.9 over 4,600 reviews on Goodreads. - French Kids Eat Everything (2012), Karen Le Billon
How Our Family Moved to France, Cured Picky Eating, Banned Snacking, and Discovered 10 Simple Rules for Raising Happy, Healthy Eaters
321 pages. Rated 3.9 over 7,300 reviews on Goodreads. - Why Gender Matters (2005), Leonard Sax
What Parents and Teachers Need to Know about the Emerging Science of Sex Differences
336 pages. Rated 4.0 over 2,300 reviews on Goodreads. - Cribsheet (2019), Emily Oster
A Data-Driven Guide to Better, More Relaxed Parenting, from Birth to Preschool
352 pages. Rated 4.1 over 7,100 reviews on Goodreads. - All Joy and No Fun (2014), Jennifer Senior
The Paradox of Modern Parenthood
320 pages. Rated 3.9 over 10,100 reviews on Goodreads. - The Opposite of Worry (2012), Lawrence J. Cohen
The Playful Parenting Approach to Childhood Anxieties and Fears
304 pages. Rated 4.3 over 500 reviews on Goodreads. - The Child, the Family, and the Outside World (1964), D.W. Winnicott
256 pages. Rated 4.0 over 200 reviews on Goodreads. - The Secrets of Happy Families (2013), Bruce Feiler
Improve Your Mornings, Rethink Family Dinner, Fight Smarter, Go Out and Play, and Much More
292 pages. Rated 4.0 over 4,200 reviews on Goodreads.
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